Bisexual

Bisexual

So i finally came out to my parents that i had a girlfriend for eight months. They have disowned me. My mom kicked me out to stay with my aunt for a couple weeks. In those weeks my girlfriend left me for her ex and one of my best friends got paralyzed from the hips down. So now i am back at home and i haven't talked to my mom since i have been home. I normally don't b**** this much but i was just hoping that maybe someone could make me feel a little better. I don't feel bad for what i am because i feel like love can come in any gender so i keep my heart open and if my love comes with boobs then so be it call me a lesbian. But i just wish that it wouldn't hurt so much to be myself

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Damn, don't feel like that - it'll take time & gradually the feelings your having now will dwindle. Hang in there, think of happy times, strong people, songs & phrases you'll build your strength. Journal how you're feeling, read back over it as time passes. I did this & after a while you'll realise that this person/time is not worth your energy. "You can only move to the future if you've learnt from your past" Goodluck & chin-up Sticking out tongue

I am f ucking done my parents hate me, im not allowed at my grnadmas and the girl that caused all this was obviously not effing worth it. Why is it so hard to just be myself. I just want to run away from all of this. Why am i not good enough for this girl? She f ucked me over and i cant get her off of my mind....why?

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-I'd rather be a good liver than have one-

you did the right thing, and it was very brave of you, sorry your mum doesnt understand yet, but she will one day, who you love doesnt change who you are, hang in there and dont feel like you have to change yourself

dont let your happenings destroy your happiness

good luck with the future, i hope all goes well Smiling

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It's no wonder I'm so Disconnected

It's no wonder I'm so Disconnected

Maybe your mum should visist your grandma !?! All the best and please remember IT DOESN'T CHANGE THE PERSON YOU ARE !!

Thank you all so much, I am about to leave up to denver because my mom thought it would be best for me. I guess i am happy to see my grandma who still supports me but it just hurts that my mom thinks i'm a completely different person. You guys made me feel so much better about me being myself. That's all i ever wanted to be. I hope with time it will get better.

Thanks again
Michaila

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-I'd rather be a good liver than have one-

gosh i just read your story....and i'm shocked! of all the people and your mom doesnt understands you?

i really hope she will one day sugar! really hope!

i love my child more than anything on this f***ed up planet - and if he would come out with that kinda of news i wouldn't love him any less

love is the only true thing left on earth - i belive that!

hang on in there girl!

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Lickity lick not so quick it's a
Slick ride make my mink slide
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Lickity lick not so quick it's a
Slick ride make my mink slide
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You did the right thing! Love is something you can't stop! So if you fall in love with somebody of the same sex...don't be ashamed of it! I hope your mom will understand you one day...

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I'd rather bleed with cuts of love, than live without any scars.

I'd rather bleed with cuts of love, than live without any scars.

sweetheart you did the right thing!!!! u should be proud of yourself you are who you are, you love who you love one day the world may realise people are just people we are free to be loved and love anyone we choose, good luck dont stop being you¬ i wish u happinesss xx caz--
caz

caz

Hey, yep, you've done the correct thing in saying something. At the moment you'll feel like s*** but time & patience is the key. Be yourself & don't be afraid to be the first to talk to your mum and ask her how she actually feels...this may lead to her listening to how you're doing. You can't help who you fall in love with. "Those who matter don't mind, those who mind don't matter"

I think you did the right thing coming out with the truth. Its not healthy keeping secrets like that. It just sucks big time that the one person in the world that should love you no matter what is the first person to let you down.
Im really sorry that you had to go through that. I hope that with time your mum will learn to understand and things will be better for you.
I could never imagine kicking my boys out of home for anything that they believed in.
Good luck with everything.

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Missy xx

I cant help it, I like to party

Missy xx